English Corner Meeting with ICEE at Sanata Dharma University
There are 2 lessons that I've learned with Champ in Grand Tour. They are stereotyping and reverse culture shock.
We did stereotyping to new people we just met is usually happened. But,
stereotyping may cause misunderstanding and unhealthy relationship. We
need to listen and communicate with new people before we are able to
recognize and understand whomever much better than only believing our
stereotyping about people.
In Go Home Come Back Chapter, I
found many quotations which were related to reverse culture shock. I'm
interested with one of them. It came from Heraclitus. "You can not step
into the same river twice, because new waters are always flowing in upon
you." Now, I change my thought. I am as human being will never stop
growing up until I died and I will never be the same person. I need to
change myself become a better person day by day because I will face
different situation everyday. Time flies, and so do I.
what your suggestion for people who always see a bad side and make suspicious from others whom they know a momment? Is is included in stereotype? because I meet so many people who do that, and they said, "That Is A Human Nature" and I dont think so.
They don't need a complicated explanation or so many suggestions. Just tell them that our eyes are only able to see body, not attitude. Truly understanding takes time. :)
I need to add something about HUMAN NATURE. Studying hardly, learning hardly, and listening carefully are HUMAN NATURE as well. It depends on ourselves how we will response and act.
what your suggestion for people who always see a bad side and make suspicious from others whom they know a momment? Is is included in stereotype?
BalasHapusbecause I meet so many people who do that, and they said, "That Is A Human Nature" and I dont think so.
They don't need a complicated explanation or so many suggestions. Just tell them that our eyes are only able to see body, not attitude. Truly understanding takes time. :)
BalasHapusI need to add something about HUMAN NATURE. Studying hardly, learning hardly, and listening carefully are HUMAN NATURE as well. It depends on ourselves how we will response and act.
BalasHapus